Anne Miller — Words Matter Make What You Say Pay!
ANNE MILLER
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Words Matter – Make What You Say Pay!

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Metaphor Minute: Stack The Deck

 

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May 29, 2008

STACK THE DECK

Karen Kelm is a singer/musician who coaches less experienced performers. Many of her students are reluctant to “cheat” when they perform with any kind of tricks or tools that would make them better performers onstage. Wanna be professionals to the core, they think they are only “good” if they can get out there and sing or play without any kind of safety net.

How does she change their minds?

She wins them over metaphorically and encourages them to “stack the deck” to help their performance any way they can (short of questionable measures). Rather than disdain to have the music in front of them, she tells them to have it there if they will play better as a result. Check the key, carefully count the band in, stand next to the piano player—whatever it takes to give themselves the better performance they will give.

“The metaphor really sinks in,” says Karen, “when I tell them that this is what the professionals do, too, only on a more artful level that the audience can't see, just like the difference between a home card game and a Las Vegas dealer's table. When people grasp the concept of “stacking the deck,” it is amazing to see how their performance improves, even though their actual skill level remains the same.”

I never thought of it as “stacking the deck,” but after Karen’s example, I realize I provide similar tricks to my group presentation and public speaking clients. To help control their nerves, strengthen their eye contact, and speak in a thoughtful, conversational manner, I have them imagine the audience as a baseball field and ask them to speak to individuals at what would be, for example, the infield position, second base position, outfield position, etc. for about the length of a sentence, a phrase or until they have to breathe and then move to the next position in a random pattern. By speaking in this fashion, they find their nervousness replaced with calm, their hyperventilation replaced with normal breathing, and their anxiety replaced with confidence.

Mentor with Metaphors

Readers of “The Metaphor Minute” are used to examples of metaphors and analogies that help close deals and simplify complexity, but these rhetorical tools are equally powerful in coaching situations. Who do you coach? What metaphors or analogies can you use to bring out the best in those people who look to you to improve their performance?

Until next month, remember to "Make What You Say, Pay – with Metaphors"

Anne Miller

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