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"The Best Arguments Dazzle with Metaphor"
-- Gerry Spence, Lawyer, Author, TV Commentator

Billions of dollars are left on the table and hundreds of ideas fail to get off the ground every day because of the overcommunicated society in which we live.  Salespeople, Managers, Consultants, CEOs, and even the President of the U.S., are constantly challenged to pierce through this information clutter to get others to see the unique value of their services, explanations, and propositions.  Metaphors solve that problem.

Join the ranks of the five-star metaphor makers and salespeople like Ronald Reagan, Jack Welch, and Steve Jobs.  You'll learn how to weave the magic of metaphor into your business arguments to sell ideas, vaporize objections, clear up confusion, make your point, and close a sale.  Packed with more than two-hundred and fifty examples from contemporary business, politics, and media, Metaphorically Selling provides a unique Four-Step Model to show anyone easily and quickly how to become a  master of metaphor.

With Miller's Metaphor Model, you will be able to separate yourself from the pack.  You will be heard, be understood, be remembered, and get the results you want.


PRAISE FOR "METAPHORICALLY SELLING"

"The use of appropriate timely, tasteful and powerful metaphorical illustrations is the poetry of all superb communications.  Anne shows how to use metaphors to dramatize the sales process.  A must read to help you become a superlative persuader."
Tony Whatley, President
Accessor Capital Management

"Like a hot knife through butter, the ideas in this book will melt away objections and help you spread your ideas further and faster.  Don't hesitate... learn what Anne's got to teach."
Seth Godin, Author
"Purple Cow" and "Free Prize Inside"

"After reading this book, you will add the strategic use of  metaphors to the musts of your high stake selling efforts.  Anne focuses our attention on this powerful sales tool in a way that most of us don't really stop and think about.  This book and its tips will help all of us in business, whether you are directly involved in sales or not and at any experience level."
Jill Manee, Vice President, Publisher
The Adage Group

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction: The $1.2 Billion Metaphor

SECTION ONE: THE CASE FOR METAPHOR
 Chapter 1:       The Challenge: Getting Heard
 Chapter 2:   What are Metaphors?
 Chapter 3:   When Do You Need Metaphors?
 Chapter 4:   Your Audience's Brain Craves Metaphors
     
SECTION TWO: BUILDING METAPHOR MUSCLE
 Chapter 5:   The Four-Step Metaphor Workout: Overview
 Chapter 6:   Identify Blindspot
 Chapter 7:   Snapshot Your Client
 Chapter 8:   Create Your Metaphor
 Chapter 9:   Relate Back To Your Point
 Chapter 10:   Beware Bad Metaphors!
     
SECTION THREE: SELLING WITH METAPHORS
 Chapter 11:   Threads: Run a Theme
 Chapter 12:   Grabbers: Get Attention
 Chapter 13:   Anchors: Position Yourself
 Chapter 14:   Nutshells: Make Memorable Recommendations
 Chapter 15:   Burners: Explain, Simplify, Reinforce Points
 Chapter 16:   Shockers: Make Numbers Stick
 Chapter 17:   Seducers: Titles That Tease
 Chapter 18:   Sledgehammers: Headlines That Hot Home
 Chapter 19:   Visuals: Communicate Concepts
 Chapter 20:   Props: Add Impact
 Chapter 21:   Clinchers: Dramatic Take-Action Closings
     
Section IV: METAPHOR MAINTENANCE
Chapter 22:   Observe and Connect
Chapter 23:   Travel To Other Worlds
Chapter 24:   Become a Clipper
     
Conclusion
Chapter Notes
Bibliography
About Anne Miller & "The Metaphor Minute"


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Excerpts from Chapter 15. Burners: Explain, Simplify, Reinforce Points

(In a previous chapter we agreed that the term metaphor would mean any comparison that conjures up a visual in your listener's mind, including analogies.)

When Sallie Krawcheck accepted a job of CEO at Smith Barney, following a series of conflict-of-interest problems at the company, many doubted she could restore customer credibility.  Krawcheck assured shareholders she was up to the task.  "The public," she explained, "is like a jilted lover.  It's going to take some time to win them back."

Her metaphor worked on many levels.  Without using the term "betrayed," Krawcheck nonetheless articulated how Smith Barney clients felt in the wake of recent revelations.  Instant forgiveness, as with an ex-lover, was not likely.  Additionally, however, her jilted-lover metaphor shows that she is acknowledging the company's responsibility as jilter, the one who ruined the relationship -- surely the first step toward reconciliation.  Finally, the utter frankness of her comparison leads us to believe that whatever subterfuge and evasion preceded her arrival as CEO is history.  Krawcheck fully embraces the challenge of rebuilding trust.

In short, with her incisive analogy, this CEO deftly avoided a potentially labored explanation -- one which might have cast further doubt on her abilities -- and instantly quelled investor anxiety.

For it is with words as with sunbeams -- the more they are condensed, the deeper they burn

More Words, More Confusion
In any pitch or presentation, no matter what you're selling or advocating, explanations are inevitable.  Perhaps you must explain how you differ from the competition; perhaps not everyone is familiar with the service or product you provide.  Or perhaps you've got a breakthrough process or technology that's quite complex.  Conversely, maybe the action you're suggestion to your audience is so obvious and straightforward you need to explain why they haven't thought of it before.  Sometimes, you need to explain a fine difference between two apparently similar things. Or -- and this is where Sally Krawcheck found herself -- you need to explain how you're going to fix something that's broken, that perhaps you broke.

So you explain.  You go into great detail.  You offer up everything you know, you use the right terminology, you explain the terminology, you leave no stone unturned.  It takes time, but you're in earnest.

Any yet, It seems, the more you talk, the less people listen.  Or they listen but they don't understand.  Or they understand so completely they tune you out.  The more they drift, the more earnestly you explain... and the further they drift.

Explanations needn't involve a lot of words.  Explanations that simply train-car adjectives or string together descriptions ("it's back-loaded collateralized emerging-market structured debt") compound the listener's confusion or boredom.  Explanations that go on and on about how a screw-up occurred don't minimize the mistake; they draw attention to it.  The less said, the better -- provided each word you choose triggers in your listener's mind a host of relevant and revelatory associations.

He who speaks well fights well. --proverb

That's where metaphor and analogy come in: With an apt comparison, you can familiarize the unknown, simplify the complex, reveal new twists in the straightforward, and refine hard-to-see differences.  You can dig yourself out of a hole; you can mold perception before it sets against you.  The well-chosen metaphor focuses understanding instead of allowing it to diffuse.  The perfect analogy crystallizes meaning in a visual, intuitive, emotionally poignant way that pierces through resistance to lodge permanently in your listener's brain.

Define a Problem
People in the dot-com world tend to have short attention spans.  The ability to explain something succinctly is expected.  Online media consultant Doug Weaver recognized that when he nailed the depressed dot-com advertising problem as it existed in early 2003.

So this is what it is right now.  Even as the online advertising industry continues to make really smart moves, as we develop capabilities that are reshaping marketing as we know it, we're constantly reminded of our most notable -- and visible --shortcoming: the advertising environment.  It's a bit like the story of Cyrano de Bergerac: the guy speaks amazing verse, but can't catch a break because of that gargantuan shnozz.

Drive it Home.
What you are proposing may not require an analogous explanation; what you're explaining may not be difficult to understand once you've laid out your data.  But the more obvious your argument, the more imperative it becomes to imbed it deep in the consciousness of your listener with a pointed comparison.

Alan Weiss, founder of Summit Consulting Group, is in the business of providing management consulting services to senior executives in Fortune 500 companies.  When it comes to cutting costs during an economic downturn, he argues persuasively against reducing training budgets, one of the first items usually slashed in tough times, with this metaphor: "No sports team, after a mediocre season says, 'let's cut back on our coaching staff, our training, and our exercise facilities to save money--that should help us for next year.'"  Hard to argue that!

Minimize an Attack
Fending off barbs by an annoying competitor who is spreading what you believe are untruths about your performance, what would you say to neutralize the attacks?  If you were the White House feeling some heat from Michael Moore's anti-Bush movie "Fahrenheit 9/11" and wanted to minimize its importance as well as avoid getting dragged into discussion about it, you attempted to minimize both Moore and the film by saying "The eagle doesn't talk to a fly."

Soften the Blow
Some explanations must not only provide an answer but also change an attitude.  Krawcheck had to diffuse anger and calm shareholder jitters about her answer about rebuilding her firm's reputation.  CEOs and political leaders are forever having to wrap their message in diplomacy, as they're the ones hired or elected to fix the really thorny problems.  The best communicators among them know that the metaphor is:

  • the best way to mold public opinion before it has hardened against them and
  • the easiest way to disarm an audience ready to attack.

Former President Bill Clinton is an acknowledged master communicator.  After his talk at the 2004 World Business Forum in NYC on Global Affairs, a member of the audience of 4,000 asked "In light of current events (the Iraq war), how can the US regain favor in the eyes of the world?"  Though not a political event, the forum was probably better attended by Republicans than Democrats.  Clinton thought for a moment then answered, "Like my Mama always said, 'If you want to have a friend, you have to be a friend.'"  That set the tone; just the word Mama disarmed the Bush/Iraq policy-backers in the audience.  Clinton then went on to outline specific strategies the US could take to regain its stature worldwide.  And, as I looked around Radio City Music Hall where the event was held, even the Republicans were listening because he'd forced them to drop their guard first.

Summary

  • When it comes to explanations, quality of expression beats quantity of words.
  • Comparisons to the known and loved make the unknown familiar and desirable.
  • Simple analogy can make the highly technical easy to grasp.
  • The obvious can be made memorable; subtle distinctions can be made obvious.
     

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INTERVIEW WITH ANNE MILLER

Author of Metaphorically Selling:
How to use the magic of metaphors to sell, persuade, & explain anything to anyone

Published by Chiron Associates, Inc. Publication, January, 2005.

1. What made you decide to write a book about metaphors?
Anyone trying to make a point or make a sale is being swamped in today's market by the perfect storm of client/listener resistance and too much information coming at people too quickly about products, services, and causes which all begin to sound alike and ultimately blur in their minds -- which makes getting a result or commitment incredibly difficult.  I saw my clients struggling to survive in this business maelstrom and. knowing the power of metaphors, I decided to write this book to help them.

2. What is it about metaphors that makes them such powerful communication tools?
Very simply, they drive home a point with a short, memorable, and emotional punch that information and logic alone do not have.

3. How is Metaphorically Selling different from other business books on the market?
Most books will mention the power of metaphors to sell.  But many people feel they are not creative enough to think of metaphors.  This is the only book that focuses on this topic exclusively with an easy to learn metaphor-making model, fun exercises for practical application, and over 250 examples to show readers how they can capitalize on this overlooked selling tool, beginning immediately.

4. What is the best use of metaphor you have heard and what results did it yield?
One of my favorites, which has been used by many of my seminar participants to close business in many situations is the following.

Problem: Someone is resistant to changing their current suppliers and is fighting the suggestion of testing your product, service, or idea.

Metaphoric Solution: "Mr. Client, you know that you can play a reasonable game of tennis with a strong forehand; you simply run around the backhand.  But when you add a strong backhand, you are much more powerful in the game.  The same is true with our (product, service, idea).  Your current supplier is your forehand; keep it.  Add our (product, service, idea) to what you are doing now and you will be much more powerful in your marketplace, your 'game,' as well."

This metaphoric logic is generally a winner!

5. What advice do you have for people who don't think they're creative enough to come up with winning metaphors?
Surprise! You are already a regular metaphor maker.  Every time you say -- "My computer crashed." "We need a home run here in this meeting." "That's a train  wreck waiting to happen." "Wish I could get a golden parachute!" -- you are using metaphors.  This book helps you turn your natural tendencies to use metaphors in conversation into high pay-off strategies in business.

6. If you're not a salesperson or corporate executive, can you benefit learning how to use metaphors?
Absolutely.  Though people may not realize it, everyone sells: managers justifying requests to senior management for people and resources; tech advisors explaining the merits of a particular system; advocates and fundraisers for a cause seeking support; parents arguing a point at a school board meeting; Presidents seeking to bind a nation to their vision.  All benefit from the magic of metaphors to make their points and win others over to their side.

7. Why is now the right time for a book such as Metaphorically Selling?
The flood of information coming at our clients daily is increasing, not decreasing.  More information is not the answer.  In this environment, we need new tools and strategies to get our messages heard and remembered.  Metaphors are those tools: they are colorful, memorable shortcuts to understanding.  This book shows you how to use them strategically to get the results you want.

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THE METAPHOR POWER PROGRAM

CHALLENGE: To get your message heard, remembered, and acted on in a world drowning in too much information.

SOLUTION: Become a Metaphorian! Learn how to:

  • Develop hard-hitting metaphors quickly
  • Use metaphors to make a point, deflect resistance, simplify complex information
  • Create memorable openings and closings
  • Bring life to PowerPoint visuals
  • Present creatively with appropriate props
  • Maintain a metaphor making mindset

RESULTS:

  • Differentiation from competitors
  • Shortened closing cycles
  • Increased business & acceptance for your ideas

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